Why do we act like getting married is the only life event worthy of a massive party? I am turning forty soon, and instead of waiting for a partner who may never arrive, I am throwing a full blown gala. I am talking a designer white gown, a five tier cake, professional photography, and a venue that screams luxury.

We spend thousands on gifts and travel for other people’s weddings, yet single women are expected to just have a quiet dinner. Celebrating your own life, your career milestones, and your personal growth is just as valid as a legal contract with a man. It is time to normalize the non wedding wedding.

I am my own soulmate, and my milestone birthday deserves the same level of investment, joy, and community recognition. #culture #lifestyle