It is time we talk about the silent struggle often found in donor conception. You can be head over heels in love with your child while still mourning the loss of your own genetic legacy. These two emotions are not mutually exclusive; they exist in parallel. Grieving the fact that your child will not have your eyes or your grandmother’s smile is a valid part of the infertility journey. It is a private loss that belongs to the parent’s narrative, not a reflection of the child’s worth or the strength of the bond you share. We need to stop shaming parents who feel this void. Acknowledging the "genetic ghost" does not make you a bad parent; it makes you human. Family is built on love, but DNA carries history, and it is okay to miss that connection while embracing your beautiful reality. #parenting #psychology #family https://thoxt.com/l/miVATf 🔗